We had iMavens ribbon cutting today with family and friends. I want to thank my family and friends who took the time and effort to come enjoy this moment with us. iMavens is now officially in business and looking forward to the challenge and fun of building upon our success. iMavens exists to help people become the best at what they do. Check out our website imavens.net for more information on how we can help your supervisors be the best. “People don’t quit companies, they quit their supervisors.”
Have you ever wondered how they shot buffalo day after day and the herd never stampeded? Turns out before the buffalo hunters (no pun intended) began their wholesale slaughter they spent several days observing the herd to determine which one was their leader. Once they identified the leader of the herd, they would shoot him first. Why didn’t the buffalo herd stampede? The heard was leaderless and therefore had no one to follow.
The relevance of this is that too many organizations depend too much or solely upon their supervisor/leader. Your responsibility as a supervisor is to create an environment whereby, even in your absence, the organization is fully functional. That does not mean you’re not important. Your contribution is to nurture each of your employees so they clearly know what is expected of them, and that you have confidence they will do the right thing even in your absence. A supervisor’s job is more of a mentor than that of a dictator. Having a title and position do not make you a leader, it just means you’re the boss. One measure of your leadership skills is how well your organization functions without your day-to-day presence. Do they continue at a high level of performance or do they take a day off coasting until your return? The answer to that question tells a lot about your leadership style and how well you have mentored those with whom you work. Being a humble mentor confident in you own skill sets makes you a great leader.
I am reminded of my visit to Kitty Hawk where the Wright Brothers became the first to fly. I ask myself this question, “What did they do different from everyone else that were frantically striving to be the first to fly? What I discovered was that pretty much everyone at the time knew that it would take a structure with wings and an engine to power it in order to be able to fly. So many would be “flyers” did just that, they would build a structure with wings and an engine. Then with different launching apparatuses such as catapults (Samuel Pierpont Langley tried it unsuccessfully) and different take off points they would fire up the engine and in short order would crash. If they survived and many didn’t, they either quit or would try it again changing little in their approach.
So what did the Wright Brothers do different? They understood unless you could control the plane, wings and an engine alone would not be enough. So they set out without a college education, little funding and a handful of dedicated workers they set out to break the code for being able to successfully fly. So they choose Kitty Hawk, North Carolina. Why because that is where the wind blows constantly surrounded by sand dunes both of which would be necessary for them to fly gliders to learn the controls necessary to be able to fly.
They understood they needed to be able to “crash,” survive, and learn from each crash how to control the glider. So with each crash, and they crashed often (up to six to eight times a day), they began unlocking the code on what it took to control the gliders. What did they discover? They discovered the three critical axes that must be controlled in order for successful flight to occur. What are the three axes they needed to control? They are: Pitch, Roll, & Yaw.
So when the Wright Brothers clearly understood how to control the plane they put those control features on a the plane along with the wings and engine and flight took off literally and figuratively. Every plane that exist today has the mechanisms to control the plane around these critical axises.
So what does this have to do with supervisors? We are essentially dong the same thing, in that the individuals whom we are considering for supervision have a couple of needed traits i.e. work hard and have demonstrated some level of skills. However, we have left them ill-equipped to have any real chance of being successful. They are set up for failure, to crash if you will.
Ever wonder what the consequences are when they do “crash?” Obviously for them personally it is devastating however the damage is not isolated to the individual alone. The “crash” cost businesses untold millions of dollars to replace good employees that quit the supervisor (“People don’t quit companies, they quit their supervisor”) as well as the cost to retrain, and/or replace the unprepared supervisor.
As promised I wanted to share some of the feedback i received in regard to people’s experience with their worst boss ever. One response I received was, “Worst boss ever has management experience in fast food and has been hired-with no discernible experience to manage a medical practice. Dropping fries is somewhat different, my friend. Good luck with that.”
How many of us have had to endure having a boss promoted to a job he has no experience in doing? One of my worst bosses stated his belief that, “you don’t need to know anything about the process just know how to manage.” He felt if you can manage effectively you can manage anything. My question has that been your experience? How important is it that the manager know something about the business he or she is managing?
Another one of the responses was that their worst boss ever was a bully, manipulator, and overbearing. My question is two-fold. First, why do you think people in position of power resort to being this kind of manager? Secondly, how do you effectively deal with this kind of individual? Is it worth trying to help this kind of individual?
Anxious to hear your responses
We have all heard the different takes on the difference between managers and leaders. Some like the saying “Managers manage processes, Leaders lead people.” Some say they are the same. i.e. if you are a manager you are a leader! Not sure I can agree with that because I have seen a lot of managers that aren’t leaders in fact some are not even good managers. So my daughter sent me this quote which I have never heard.
“When I talk to managers I get the feeling they are important. When I talk to leaders, I feel like I am important.
That is in my opinion what differentiates real leaders versus managers. Leaders bring out the best in you. It is not about them it is about inspiring others to give their best. Managers lead with what I call title and position. They are always reminding us of their title, position and/or ultimately their power.
I have received some interesting feedback about my last post “Worst Boss Ever” and will be sharing that in the coming days. If anyone knows the origin of the statement my daughter sent me please let us know. Always want to give credit where credit is due.
Everyone Has Had One!
There are few things in life that everyone has had and can immediately relate to and can readily share their own experience. I am talking about “supervisors.” I suspect just saying the word “supervisor” conjures up an image of your worst and/or best supervisor. Most can and do think first of their worst supervisor ever. I don’t know about you but I always wondered how this person ever achieved this level of responsibility. In today’s world with four generations in the workspace it is imperative that supervisors be able to relate and engage people on a personnel level. One of my madras is “People don’t quit companies they quite their supervisors.”
So I would like to begin a dialogue about your experiences with “bad supervisors” and what makes for a “bad supervisor” and more importantly what it takes to be a “good supervisor.” In the next few weeks I will be sharing your stories along about the “bad supervisors” you have encountered and how you survived the ordeal as well as the great supervisors you might have had and how that experience impacted your life. Together we can learn a lot from each other and hopefully provide some insight on how to be a good supervisor and how to effectively deal with the “Worst Supervisor Ever.” I look forward to hearing your stories.